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Even though grief is a natural part of the healing process, it doesn’t make it any easier to lose your grandmother. If you were close, it’s especially tough. Memories flood your heart and it can feel overwhelming—and that’s okay. Be especially understanding with yourself and know that everyone grieves differently, that your particular process is valid and beautiful. Here are a few tips for mourning the loss of your special family member. Turn to Your Faith or Spirituality Those with strong spiritual beliefs turn to their higher power during hard times because it comforts them. Because grieving can feel like such a lonely process, it’s good to have something bigger than yourself to remind you that you aren’t really alone. Lean on your faith during this time. Talk to a Grief Counselor It’s common to have difficulty investigating your feelings, and you might find it difficult to perform ordinary tasks each day while dealing with loss. It may be helpful to see a pro...

When friends or family are separated by distance, a gift can let them know that you’re thinking of them. Whether it’s best friend gifts or family gifts, these ideas will help you close the distance and feel like your friends and loved ones are always with you.  Angel Sculptures What better way to let someone know you are watching over them, always willing to help, than with an angel sculpture? Consider an angel sculpture holding a conch to her ear, as if she can hear the other person through the shell. Or, if you are looking for brother or sister gifts , consider an angel with her arms crossed using the American Sign Language sign for love.  Keepsake Boxes A keepsake box lets your friend or family member keep small treasures and mementos, particularly of you. Consider, for instance, one with a girl holding a dog for dog lovers, which reads “Truly a friend” at the bottom of the box. The box can hold notes and small items that remind them of you and is perfec...

Watching a friend lose a loved one is hard. Knowing what to say and how to comfort them in their time of need can be a tricky road to navigate. Aphorisms and clichés just don’t cut it sometimes. Instead, find other ways to show your sympathy in personally meaningful ways. Try a heartfelt letter using appropriate language, find a few beautiful sympathy gifts , give them the space they need, or just let them know that you’re available if they need anything. Here are a few ways you can express love and support, but as long as you approach your friend with understanding and an open heart, they’ll probably know they can rely on you. Write a Letter It’s easy to fall back on clichés such as, “they are in a better place,” or, “you’ll feel better soon,” when talking to a grieving friend. Clichés tend to do more harm than good. Writing out a letter lets you choose exactly what you are going to say and is more personal and sincere than a text or email. Your friend can respond...